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We have officially arrived in winter’s biggest gift-giving season, which means it’s time to let love and good lovin’ take center stage as we celebrate the holidays!
And, naturally, in this amorous time of year, exploring intimacy and sensual play with your partner is a great way to center love, pleasure and fun in your relationship and remind you and your partner why you’re low-key obsessed with each other. Which means you may want to score a sex toy or some other kind of intimate gift to level-up your bedroom.
Picking an innocuous vanilla gift for your significant other is hard enough, so we’re here to help you nail down the sexiest gifts available. Whether it’s a new toy to experiment with, an introduction to something exciting you want to try, or deals on toys that are typically splurges, we’ve got you covered. Sex toys come in all shapes and sizes, too, so you can grab a special stocking stuffer or something bigger to really make a splash. There are even sex toy advent calendars if you want to celebrate all month long, and subscription boxes for a gift that keeps on giving.
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And, before you read on, have an evergreen reminder: Giving sex toys as gifts is something really best left for people you know will want to receive a NSFW gift from you. Be wise and respectful of consent before sending anyone a goodie off this list! And if you are even a little bit hesitant, maybe sit back, snag a gift card, and make shopping part of your foreplay instead.
Otherwise, happy shopping! And, more importantly, happy grown-up playtime when your gifts arrive!
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Bloomi The Starter Bundle
Image Credit: Bloomi Indulging yourself or your loved one is what the holidays are all about, right? Bloomi’s Starter Bundle is a versatile slam dunk for people who love clitoral and body massage stimulation. The set features a tube of Smooth Personal Water-Based Lubricant and the Indulge Double-Sided Vibrator, which comes with three titillating vibration patterns to keep things fresh.
Bloomi The Starter Bundle$64
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Sex Bomb Bath Bomb
Image Credit: Lush It’s always good to take a chill moment and reevaluate what makes a sex toy. It doesn’t need to vibrate or thrust or suck to be transformative! A sex bath bomb, like the cult fave Sex Bomb Bath Bomb from Lush, is a cool way to introduce a different set of scents and experiences to intimacy. Use it for a little self-care before you get it on (check those aphrodisiac ingredients!) or for some really sweet bathtime aftercare.
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Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Wide Handcuffs
Image Credit: Bijoux Indiscrets Kink up your life a little with a cute set of handcuffs that are aesthetic and fairly beginner-friendly to enjoy losing or gaining a bit more control in bed. (Pro tip: feel free to take turns and talk about how you both felt in each role!) As a bonus, these handcuffs also double as chic leather bracelets — just unhook the chain to transform them into subtly sexy accessories.
And when you’re having fun with them in the bedroom (maybe with our fave handcuff sex positions?), be sure to practice safe play and know your safe words and BDSM etiquette.
Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Wide Handcuffs$45
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Satisfyer Curvy 2+
Image Credit: Satisfyer I’m a sucker for an app-enabled, remote-control toy, and they’re an especially great choice for folks with long-distance partners. The Curvy 2+ from Satisfyer is absolutely one I’d recommend for anyone who loves a good suction sensation.
Satisfyer Curvy 2+$34.95
on Amazon.com
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Vibes Only Clean Up Towel
Image Credit: Vibes Only The goofiest part of sex by far is clean-up time. If you’re looking for a cheeky, dedicated tool for taking care of post-coital fluids, Vibes Only’s super cute clean-up towel offers a sweet and giggly dose of gratitude post-play.
Vibes Only Clean Up Towel$16
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Missy Clitoral Stimulator by Girls Get Off
Image Credit: Girls Get Off As the most popular toy from cult-favorite sex toy brand Girls Get Off, the Missy makes such a cute stocking stuffer, you’d never guess just how powerful it is. This toy uses pulsing suction to send all kinds of good feelings to your clitoris, and the rave reviews reveal just how well it truly works. One reviewer said the Missy saved their marriage, while another said it helped them rediscover pleasure after a traumatic birth. “I bought myself the Missy and it is the best thing I have ever done,” one person wrote. Which lucky person on your gifting list gets one?
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Isabel Fay Water-Based Lubricant
Image Credit: Isabel Fay A water-based lube is essential to have in your sexual health tool kit for myriad reasons, but investing in a really nice one that will pair well with pretty much anything you throw at it is a sweet splurge you’ll thank yourself for later. This water-based lube from Isabel Fay is designed to be safe for your vaginal pH and the bottle is pretty enough that it won’t look out of place next to the body lotion on your bedside table.
Isabel Fay Water-Based Lubricant$17.95
on Amazon.com
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Dame Eva
Image Credit: Dame A favorite couple’s vibrator around these parts, the Dame Eva can help you get way more bang for your buck in penetrative sex or solo sexual encounters with targeted clitoral stimulation that goes right where you want it to while also sharing some of that sweet vibrate-y wealth with their partner. Win/win.
Dame Eva$98 $139.99 30% Off
on Amazon.com
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LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle
Image Credit: LELO Massage can be such a great way to build intimacy and make your partner feel amazing. It’s one of our favorite household sex toys for a reason! I swear by this massage candle from LELO that gives you ambience and lubricant (since the candle is actually just solid massage oil) in one sleek sexy package.
LELO Flickering Touch Massage Candle$24.50 $34.90 30% Off
on Amazon.com
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Womanizer Premium 2
Image Credit: Womanizer Womanizer is a fan favorite for a reason, and the Premium 2 — the newest iteration of their ultra-popular vibrator — shows every reason why. This small-but-mighty clitoral stimulator is packed with 14 (!) vibration modes, plus autopilot settings that let you turn it on and simply enjoy the ride. Plus, it’s quiet — perfect for anyone sneaking in some fun in a crowded house over the holidays!
Womanizer Premium 2$159
on Amazon.com
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Promescent The Rub & Love Pack
Image Credit: Promescent Looking for a way to make date night extra spicy? The Promescent Rub & Love Pack comes with everything you need to make that happen. The set includes massage oils to “perk up” your partner’s senses, a warming gel that “gets the party started before the actual party starts,” and a climax control spray that can prolong said party.
Promescent Rub & Love Pack$50.91
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Crave Vesper
Image Credit: Crave Jewelry is never a bad idea for a gift, and this beautiful pendant necklace that doubles as a discreet and powerful vibrator is the best of both worlds. Coming in silver, rose gold, and gold, there’s a Crave Vesper to suit everyone’s tastes.
Crave Vesper$44.85
on Amazon.com
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Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator
Image Credit: Tracy’s Dog If you’re looking to have an NSFW date night, a remote-controlled vibrator like this can absolutely level-up any activity — including running errands, going to a movie, or taking a hot girl walk. I love this one especially for pairing vibration with suction and, of course, for the super cute and discreet remote.
Tracy’s Dog OG Pro 2 Clitoral Sucking Vibrator$49.99
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Maude Vibe + Shine Organic
Image Credit: Maude Maude Vibe + Shine Organic$50.15
on Amazon.com
