A Beginner’s Guide to Every Kind of Vibrator on the Market

The One Rabbit

Rabbit vibrators are ultra-popular, and The One Rabbit from Babeland will show you why. This powerful G-spot stimulator is equipped with not one but two motors: One on the “head” and the other just below those bunny ears for an extra tantalizing experience. With ten different vibration functions and 100 minutes (!) of rechargeable battery life, this standout vibrator is sure to get you where you want to go.

Magic Wand Mini

We’ll talk full-sized wands later on, but let’s start with the Magic Wand Mini because it’s the perfect wand vibe for beginners. It’s super compact, weighing just 9.7 ounces, which makes it perfect for traveling or discreet storage. But when you’re ready to use it, the Magic Wand Mini brings all the verve you’re looking for. Play around with the three speed settings and see what tickles your fancy.

Womanizer Starlet 3 Clitoral Stimulator

Where penetrative vibrators are all about internal stimulation, clitoral vibrators are focused (often exclusively) on external stimulation. They come in a range of shapes (sometimes resembling butterflies, other times resembling tongues), but most of them tend to be shorter and squatter than penetrative vibrators. Some clitoral vibrators are more suited for solo play, while others are intended for use during partner play—offering an extra dose of hands-free clitoral stimulation during penetrative intercourse.

Clitoral Vibrators: Mimic Plus

Many clitoral vibrators try to mimic oral sex through suction-based stimulation, but the Mimic Plus takes a different approach: It offers sensation through deeper, more rumbly vibrations. The Mimic Plus is great for solo play, but its subtle profile makes it great for partner play, too—simply slide it over you (or your partner’s) clitoris during intercourse, and let the Mimic Plus do its thing.

Rabbit Vibrators: Impulse Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

The Impulse Rabbit Vibrator is rendered in a seriously sleek silhouette. Not only does it come with seven vibration modes, but it also offers five levels of “zap intensities” that purport to tone your kegel muscles. A toy that doubles as a pelvic floor workout? Yes, please.

Rabbit Vibrators: Lovehoney Jessica Rabbit Triple Rabbit Vibrator

Most rabbit vibrators offer two-in-one pleasure, but a handful offer three-in-one pleasure. A semi-realistic penetrative dildo. A rabbit ear-adorned clitoral stimulator. And a textured anal stimulator. This triple threat is fit for all kinds of play, so if you find yourself pulled in a few different directions, this vibe might be a great option for you.

Wand Vibrators: Hitachi Magic Wand Massager

Wand vibrators are technically just a subsection of classic penetrative vibrators, but they’ve become so widespread they deserve their own category. Most wand vibrators generally resemble microphones: They’re large, powerful, and characterized by the generally round head on the tip of the vibrator. Like many classic vibrators, wands can be used for penetrative or clitoral stimulation (though they rarely offer both at the same time).

The toy that practically defined the wand vibrator genre, the Hitachi Magic Wand is a classic worth adding to your repertoire. Though many wand vibrators retail for luxury (read: expensive) prices, this one is exceptionally affordable. 

Shibari Mini Halo Wand Massager

This take on the wand vibrator is sleeker and smaller than most, making it particularly beginner-friendly. But don’t be fooled—this small toy still packs a serious punch: The Shibari offers 20 intensity settings.

Bullet Vibrators: Je Joue Rabbit Bullet Vibe

Je Joue is a great option for those who love the idea of rabbit ears, but are a little intimidated by the size and intensity of a two-in-one toy. This bullet vibrator is small, subtle, and shaped for all kinds of different stimulation. It also comes with two sets of settings — one that adjusts for intensity, and one that changes up the pulsing pattern — leaving you with plenty to explore.

Bullet Vibrators: Crave Vesper

A wearable vibrator? Say it ain’t so. The Crave Vesper is an incredibly slim bullet that doubles as a chic necklace. Accessorize with it, and let its true form be your little secret. (Or let your partner know exactly what you’re wearing as you settle down for dinner on your next date night.)

Finger Vibrators: Fin Finger Vibe

Slide this ring over two of your fingers, and let one finger rest on each side of the nub. The larger side is great for targeted stimulation, while the other is incredibly smooth to the touch. With each of these options — and the Fin’s three speed intensities — there’s plenty of exploration to be had.

Tongue Vibrators: ColorPop LingO Vibrating Tongue Ring

Like finger vibrators, tongue vibrators are very small toys meant to enhance (not supplant) regular play. They look a lot like finger vibrators, but they’re technically crafted in slightly different shapes and sizes. (If you want to repurpose a tongue vibrator as a finger vibrator, for example, you might have to slip two fingers into the ring instead of one.)

This mini vibrator stretches to fit tongues of many different sizes. Unlike many sex toys, which are rechargeable, this vibrator is meant for one-and-done use. It’ll offer 40 minutes of fun, but if you want more than that, you’ll have to buy a second.

Tongue Vibrators: Trinity Vibes Lick It Tongue Vibe

The largest of the tongue vibes on this list, the Trinity Vibes Lick It offers a sleeker (albeit wider) profile than many similar toys. Crafted from soft, hot pink silicone, the Lick It can switch up your oral sex routine. Remember, you can always repurpose it as a finger vibrator and enjoy it on your own.

Vibrating Cock Rings: ColorPoP Screaming O Vibrating Ring

Cock rings round out the wearable vibrator genre, partners with penises and without pleasure in equal measure. Partners with a penis can slip the vibrating ring on and enjoy all the stimulation it has to offer. Then, they can penetrate you from any position that puts you two face-to-face. If the ring is placed appropriately, it should rub up against the clitoris, adding all kinds of exciting sensations to the mix.

Worth noting: As you well know, penises come in an array of shapes and sizes. So some cock rings will not fit some penises. To avoid discomfort, open up a conversation about cock rings before splurging on one as a surprise gift for someone else. (The last thing you’d want is to spend a bunch of money on something that doesn’t fit! Plus, conversations are generally an important precursor to sexual exploration.)

Cock rings can be intimidating, but ColorPop’s pastel palette leaves them feeling decidedly approachable. The ColorPoP Screaming O Vibrating Ring makes for a fun birthday gift, a sexy surprise on a getaway, and an all-around accessible way into the cock ring genre. And at an $8 price point, this fun toy is hard to pass up.

Vibrating Cock Rings: Lovehoney Double Fun Strap-On

The Lovehoney Double Fun Strap-On is a next-level vibrator. Part cock ring, part penetrative strap-on, the Double Fun is excellent for those looking for an intense and out-of-the-box experience. This toy is definitely not for everyone, but we suspect those who find themselves intrigued will absolutely love it.

Butt Plugs: Rocks Off Berry Vibrating Butt Plug

Though our collective associations with vibrators tend to be pretty vulvovaginal, it’s important to remember that vibrating anal toys are, very much, on offer. Butt plugs are generally small and round—frequently shaped like teardrops, spheres, or tapered cylinders. Though butt plugs are excellent for anal penetration, they’re also great for explorative anal play. Simply turn on the vibrator and massage your (or your partner’s) anus with it to get accustomed to the sensation. From there, you can experiment with penetration—or not. Focus on what feels good to you. 

(Pro-tip: If you’re buying an anal toy of any kind, make sure to purchase one with a flared base. Vaginas are like cul-de-sacs—they dead-end at a certain point, so even if something gets lost in your vagina, it can’t go very far. Your anus feeds into your rectum, which is part of your large intestine. If something gets lost in there, it can travel up through your intestines and cause serious problems for you. Thankfully, all of this can be easily avoided: Anything that widens at the end is less likely to get engulfed—and that’s definitely a positive.)

Can we just take a moment to acknowledge how cute the Rocks Off Berry Vibrating Butt Plug is? Its small size makes it perfect for beginners, and its adorable profile renders it pretty discreet. If a friend (or family member) spots it in your nightstand, there’s little chance they’ll know what it is. (Not that it really matters if they do.)

Butt Plugs: Vibrating Snugs Plugs

Not sure what size to start with? Babeland recommends its smaller Snug Plugs for beginners, and its XL size for those looking for something a little more intense. Each plug comes with a tapered tip for easy insertion, and each offers four levels of intensity (as well as six pulsing patterns).