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No shade at your tried-and-true sex positions—after all, hopefully, they’ve become faves for good reasons, like consistent climax and connection.
The thing is, with so many pleasurable sexual configurations to try, there’s really no good reason not to branch out while you bone. Not to mention, trying new sex positions can help stoke the so-called sexual flames, keeping things hot-hot-hot even as the months and years go on (and of course, some new sex toys can help heat things up too). There are plenty of ways to make sure that no two nights in are exactly the same, whether you’re playing solo or with a partner or two. Sometimes all it takes is a brand-spanking-new position to get the party started and to reignite some important conversations about what feels best in the act. (And remember, it’s okay if those things change or if you just want to test something out!)
We also know you’re busy and probs don’t want to waste precious time researching impossible pretzel-like contortions. That’s why we asked queer sex educator and sex journalist Gabrielle Kassel to share the best sex positions for reigniting the spark, whether you’re playing solo or with a partner or two.
Read on for a compilation of 69 (nice) sexpert-based sex positions we think you should try ASAP.
A version of this story was originally published in July 2016.
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Modified Coital-Alignment Technique
Essentially an upgraded version of missionary, the Coital Alignment Technique position (aka CAT) is a face-to-face position that involves the penetrating partner moving up and down rather than in and out. For this elevated variation, the receiving partner lays on their back. Then, the penetrating partner enters from above.
The key word here? Above. The penetrating partner needs to shift their weight forward so that their penis or dildo presses all along the external vulva rather than going right for the glory holes.
Why It’s Great: Once in position, the penetrator should avoid thrusting and instead focus on moving their hips in circles. This simultaneously massages the internal erogenous zones in the vagina (like the G-spot) as well the clitoral glans. Meanwhile, the receiving partner should experiment with tilting their hips at various angles, as well as wrapping their legs around their lover’s back.
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Doggy Style
As far as rear-entry sex positions go, doggy style is top dog. For this classic, the receiving partner gets on all fours while the penetrating partner stands or kneels behind them and goes to town. From here, the receiving partner can ‘cat-cow’ their pelvis to facilitate pressure against their most sensitive hot-spots, while the penetrating partner can use their hands to grip, grab, or grope to their heart’s content.
Why It’s Great: On the physical front, the doggy style allows for easy to the G-spot (shallow penetration) or A-spot (deeper penetration), depending on the exact angle. Plus, the receiving partner is perfectly positioned to stimulate their clit with their hand or vibe. Meanwhile, emotionally and mentally, the bestial position can be arousing because it often feels more intense and less restrained.
Not to mention, there are a lot of modifications to give the giver and receiver something they’ll enjoy, such as anal doggy, flat doggy, and wheelbarrow.
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Pushing Tush
Butt-lovers rejoice! The Pushing Tush, sometimes known as rear-entry missionary, is a sex position that makes the back door the star of the show. You’ll assume the missionary position, but rather than the vagina being the point of entry, the anus will be.
To facilitate the angle of entry, the bottom partner should put a sex pillow under their hips. Alternatively, the bottom can plant their feet into the mattress and then actively tilt their hips up and press their spine into the ground, which will open the anal canal.
In case it needs to be said, lube is an absolute must here. The anal canal is never self-lubricating in the way the vagina often is. So, to reduce uncomfortable friction and facilitate that feel-good slide-and-glide, you’ll want to lather the insertive body part or toy with lubricant and use a lube shooter to coat the inner canal.
Why It’s Great: This is a solid choice if either partner has expressed interest in playing around with anal penetration in an intimate way. A suitable position for both anal with a penis and dildo (aka pegging), this face-to-face position allows the penetrating partner to read their partner’s facial cues for additional insight on comfort.
If both partners want to enjoy anal penetration at the same time, consider having the top partner plop in a vibrating butt plug or prostate massager ahead of entry.
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The Butterfly
If your sexual motto is that deeper is better, the butterfly sex position is for you. This half-standing, half-laying sex position involves the receiving partner laying back on a slightly elevated surface (think: bed, table, countertop). Then, positioning their heels over the shoulder of the penetrating partner, who should assume an athletic stance before them before sliding in.
Why It’s Great: The Butterfly offers the standing partner a serious eye-full, making it ideal for visual learners. Meanwhile, the angle of the lying partner’s hips allows them to achieve cervical stimulation. Not to mention, their hands are free for clitoral activities.
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Countertop
As its apt name suggests, this sex position is to facilitate your sweeping-off-the-countertop (or desk) fantasies. The Countertop sex position can utilize just about any flat surface that is the right height for the penetrating partner. Find a sturdy surface and have the receiving partner lay or sit down. Then, get to work.
Why It’s Great: To start, the Countertop sex position allows you to act out some of your hot-hot-hot sexual fantasies in the kitchen, office, or board room. It also frees up both partners’ hands for nipple and clitoral stimulation, hair pulling, or any other types of love touches.
For the record: This position also works well for cunnilingus. The only difference is that during the oral sex variation, the giving partner will kneel before their partner, not stand.
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Happy Scissors
Because three is a lucky number, here’s one additional sex position that’s excellent for any flat surface. As with the previous two positions, the Happy Scissors set-up involves the receiving partner lying on a hip-height surface while the penetrating partner stands before them. The difference is that the laying partner should splay their legs and point their toes to the ceiling.
Why It’s Great: The open-legged position that marks Happy Scissors is seriously erotic. When on their back, the bottom partner essentially welcomes their partner to gaze into and fill their wide, open hole(s). The energy of this set-up can be exceptionally arousing for those interested in playing with power dynamics in bed, as the receiving position is a submission one.
Also: This position gives access to all sorts of erogenous zones down the legs and feet. Who knows, maybe Happy Scissors is the excuse you’ve been waiting for to try toe-sucking in bed.
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Uncloak the Clitoris
Clitoral stimulation — not penetration — is the name of the game with the Uncloak the Clitoris sex position. This handsy sex position involves one partner using their fingers to stimulate their lover’s glans clitoris, which is the tip of the iceberg of the clitoral structure which actually extends far back into the body.
Bringing this clit-focused sex position to life is going to require a decent bit of communication. The reason? Not all vulva owners like their genitals touched the same. Whether you give this sensitive part of the body love by tapping it, pressing it, circling it, or another form of touch altogether, should depend on the receiver’s preferences.
Similarly, while some people enjoy having their clit touched through direct stimulation, other people need to buffer the intensity by wearing underwear or layering their labia over the love bud. With that, it’s important to ask your partner what they like before bee-lining to the glans.
Why It’s Great: The vast majority of people with vulvas can’t orgasm from penetration alone. In fact, research has found that 70 percent of women find sex more pleasurable and/or more orgasmic when clitoral stimulation is part of sexual play. Given that, this hand-sex position can be a great way to help get your partner off.
Additionally, because this position requires so much communication, it can encourage you to talk about your needs in and out of the bedroom, which can benefit your relationship overall.
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Rocking Horse
The Rocking Horse will become your new fave for G-spot stimulation and intimate eye-contact. In this position, the receiving partner sits between the penetrating partner’s legs, with the receiving partner’s legs just short of wrapped around them (but you can modify for that if you want to go full Koala!).
Why It’s Great: With Rocking Horse, both partners rock into each other, which gives you a lot of room to control the depth of penetration while also holding each other super close. It can be as gentle or as sexy (or a combo of both!) as you like.
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Seated Scissors
Think of seated scissors as a play on reverse cowgirl — and we mean play, because this position is a fun one. The penetrating partner lies on their back with one leg bent while the receiving partner gets on top, straddling their bent leg and arranging their legs however feels comfortable. There’s plenty of support up top and lots of room for both partners to experiment.
Why It’s great: Seated scissors is truly fun for everyone. While the receiving partner gets to bounce, bump, and grind to their heart’s content on top, the penetrating partner can relax and enjoy the great view.
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Baring the Scepter
Creative copulators, this one’s for you. The Baring the Scepter involves DIY-ing a vibrating penis ring. How? With your fingers.
For this sex position, either partner will form a ring with their thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis and slightly pull down so the skin of the shaft is taut. If they can keep their hand there during intercourse, it’s a sure way to make the penis in question harder and more sensitive.
Why It’s Great: Store-bought penis rings are widely lauded for their ability to slow blood flow out of the penis, resulting in a stiffy that is harder and longer lasting. This toy-free version, which can help achieve a similar outcome, is accessible to those who don’t have a penis ring on hand.
It’s worth noting that while this particular position is geared towards improving erectile function, a rock-hard erection isn’t necessary for pleasurable oral or hand sex.
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Spooning
Particularly on slow mornings, there are few things that hit like a morning tussle with your partner. The Spooning (yes, like the cuddling position) invites the penetrating partner to step into the big spoon role and enter their partner vaginally or anally from behind.
Why It’s Great: Skin, skin, and more skin is the name of the game with spooning sex. This ultra-intimate position is a great way to seamlessly transition from loving cuddles to making love. Best of all, your hands remain free for touch and clitoral stimulation.
Oh, and when you’re all done, there’s not much else to do but snuggle up and fall back asleep for a while. (But remember to pee after sex. Nobody wants a UTI over here.)
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Hands Behind Ankles
Entering into the kinky portion of our list, Hands Behind Ankles is a position that requires a comfortable pair of cuffs, a good deal of flexibility, and some pre-game discussion. Make sure the partner being cuffed is comfortable, sort out safe words (a red, yellow, green stoplight system is cool but stopping when you hear “stop” is always a good place to start, NGL) and plan out some cozy aftercare.
Now on to the position: Sort of a Yoga meets hogtie move (unless you get a set up of cuffs that accomodate ankles, I suppose), you’ll want to have the partner being penetrated/cuffed lie down with their belly to the floor and bend their legs up. Reaching back for their feet, attach the cuffs around the wrists so they sit behind their ankles. With a little careful maneuvering, have the penetrating partner slide in between the receiving partner’s back and ankles. (Or, when in doubt, bust out a toy!)
Why It’s Great: If bondage is your cup of tea, you know how sexy a position like this can be. The receiving partner is especially vulnerable, bringing in a sensual trust and relinquishing of control. On the physical end, stretching and opening the penetrated partner’s hips brings bit of extra blood to the pelvis, allowing for a highly stimulating experience.
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Self-Loving (On Your Knees)
Whether you’re flying solo or are showing your partner some of what you like, a solid go-to masturbation position (like grinding on a firm pillow or a toy) can be an excellent way to heighten pleasure. Set a rhythm that works and go to town.
Why It’s Great: Straddling said pillow (or your lover’s thigh, go off) makes this position is great for people with vulvas to get the friction they really want. It’s a super simple yet effective position, especially if you don’t have a cache of toys or tools at your disposal.
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The Kinky Missionary
Looking for an excuse to whip out your under-mattress restraint sets or headboard-friendly cuffs or invest in them? Consider this position. The Kinky Missionary is your standard missionary sex but with some added bondage. Here, you’ll restrain your partner to the bed and approach missionary as usual.
Why It’s Great: This BDSM-beginner position should be one of the first positions you try out when breaking out the restraints. Why? The face-to-face configuration can provide a feeling of safety. Plus, the positioning allows you to use non-verbal facial cues — in addition to verbal ones — to suss out what your partner enjoys.
More experienced kinksters will be happy to know that there are plenty of ways to embrace power play in this configuration. Blindfolds, dirty talk, and sensation play can all be used to intensify the agreed-upon power dynamic. So, take some time to talk to one another about what would feel the most exciting and don’t hesitate to troubleshoot and adjust as you go, especially if it’s your first time adding this kind of play to your sex life!
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Queening in Bondage
You may know this position by its other less SFW name — “face sitting” — but Queening in Bondage is when a partner recieves oral stimulation while resting on or above their partner’s mouth. Your weight can mostly held by your knees and thighs, so don’t get too wound up about “crushing” your partner — just make sure they feel comfortable communicating how much pressure is good from you on top!
Why It’s Great: The power switch of this position is so enticing, and receiving partners will love getting to set the pace and pressure. Adding restraint play to position is yet another way to up the sensation and intensity of the scene or sexual encounter, allowing the receiving partner to really own the power of the pose (as pictured here) or offering an equally sexy subversion if you switch places.
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Standing Room Only
Standing sex positions can be an incredibly hot way to change things up if you and your partner find yourself in the same old positions time and time again. Add a pair of cuffs, like in this position, to really take things up a notch. It feels intuitive for the partner who wants to be cuffed to also be partner recieving — but not a requirement necessarily! Just make sure the partner recieving can adjust their leg; slung around the waist, butt, or thigh is a good place to start, but the un-cuffed partner should help support to get the optimal angle.
Why It’s Great: This beginner-friendly bondage move makes you feel like you just dropped into a erotic movie scene. The change of angle plus the cuffs just pushes all the right buttons! Just remember to check in and make sure restraints aren’t too tight and that you switch things up when and if your cuffed partner gets tired (it happens!). Also: A solid pair of over the door cuffs (these from Unbound are comfy and cute!) will be your best friend here.
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Standing Up Full-Frontal
Something that almost always seems like a better idea in theory? Shower sex. It’s ideal for early morning quickies and keeping things clean, but depending on the shape of your shower and tub, and whether there’s a possibility of roommates walking in on you (oops), this position can sometimes throw you for a loop. But if you lock your door and schedule some quiet time, it’s definitely do-able.
One position is ideal if you have a bench or a wider rim of your tub — have the penatrating partner keep both legs on the ground (they do need to keep their balance game together here!) while the partner being penetrated takes them from the front, lifting one leg up to wrap around their partner or to rest on the side of the tub. Just add water.
Why It’s Great: Done right, there’s something so sleek and heady about getting intimate with all that water running down your body during shower sex. This simple position gives both partners the option to set the pace, and since you’re already on your feet, it’s easy to move to a drier area when the hot water runs out.
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Soap’n’Grope
Flip things around in this shower sex variation to keep the fun going. For this option, the partner being penetrated should brace themselves on an available wall as the penetrating partner enters from behind.
Why It’s Great: Shower sex is meant to be a hands-on activity, clearly — so the Soap’n’Grope standing position allows the penetrating partner to do a bit more exploring along with a sexy angle to enjoy. It’s easily the dirtiest way to have good, clean fun.
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Anal Spoon
Looking for a relaxing way to roll around in the hay, anal style? The Anal Spoon position, sometimes known as the rear-entry side position, is just that. To try it, have the penetrating partner lube up their penis or dildo with lubricant, then enter your rear. When you feel their head pressing into your hinny, pull your knees into your chest and exhale to help open and relax your anal sphincter.
Why It’s Great: One of the snuggliest options around for all bodies, this anal sex position allows the penetrating partner to enter your peach while snuggling up close to you. Plus, your hands are free to hold one another or play with other erogenous areas while you play.
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Lap Dance
For this seated sex position, you’ll use your favorite armless chair (or any available surface) and have the receiving partner straddle the penetrating partner’s lap, either face-to-face or front to back. The receiving partner can situate themselves however it feels comfortable, but feet planted on the floor are typically best as the ground can be used for leverage while thrusting. From there, they can rotate, bounce, and grind to their heart’s content—much as someone might during a lap dance.
Why It’s Great: Lap Dance allows for deep penetration and even deeper eye contact, making it ideal for those who enjoy cervical stimulation and intimacy. This position is a great alternative for standing sex positions for couples who are of different heights. Because the partner on top can do all the humping and bumping, Lap Dance is also accessible for wheelchair users and those with lower-body strength or mobility limitations.
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A Lazy Grind
You don’t need to work hard to feel amazing in bed, and the Lazy Grind is proof. Sitting with your heads opposite one another, you can straddle one another’s legs for some penetration or any other kind of rubbing.
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Backseat Driver
Fooling around in the car… it’s like high school all over again. Hop in the back of the car for Backseat Driver and lower down one of the front seats to maximize your space, then the receiving partner can hop on facing forwards or backwards. Just don’t get caught!
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Belt Bondage
More fun in the backseat? Yes please. Play around with a seatbelt for a built-in handcuff prop, then get as creative as you want from there.
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Seated Rear Entry
If you really don’t want to get caught, the Seated Rear Entry is the car-sex move for you. It’s the most subtle way to have some fun in the back (or front!) seat. Simply have the receiving partner sit on the penetrating partner’s lap, facing forward, and start grinding away.
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Yab-Yum With a Twist
Yab-Yum With a Twist takes a traditional Tantric sex and makes it perfect for the front seat of the car. Instead of having the penetrating partner cross their legs, they’ll sit upright with the receiving partner on their lap. The special part of this position is how close you’ll feel to your partner. Sitting face-to-face and breathing each other’s breath promotes serious romance, no matter where you’re at.
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Trunk Space
Doggy style in the car? Yep, you heard us right. Lowering one seat gives the penetrating partner room to lean over the receiving partner and provides plenty of leverage to push in deep, plus lots of opportunities for touch and hand play.
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Over the Hump
An interpretation of doggy style for one? Yes, please! Slip a pillow or two under your stomach and hips for support and use your hands or a toy (or both!) to light things up.
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Superstar
If you’re looking for a hot self-lovin’ moment, the Superstar is where it’s at. Kneel on a soft surface with your torso upright, opening your knees to a comfortable position. Use your arm for support or lean against a wall and experiment with angles to find the explore the sensation.
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The Solo Snake
The Solo Snake is ideal for getting hot, hot, hot as you grind against a hand or a vibrating toy. Your own body weight is what makes this position feel oh-so-good; the extra friction really increases your sensitivity.
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Layer Cake
The Layer Cake is an intimate grinding move allows for maximum clitoral stimulation, and believe us, you’ll see why. The receiving partner can lie flat on top, either facing towards or away from the penetrating partner (both are equally fun), and grasp the edge of the bed to get some friction going. And this position is nothing if not versatile! The penetrating partner can also be on top, using their arms to pump and grind.
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The Reverse Slither
The Reverse Slither position is a whole new way to take it from behind, including plenty of opportunities to stimulate the breasts and clit. The rear-entry position is always exciting, and your heads are right next to each other, the perfect spot for kissing or some dirty talk.
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Stacked Snakes
With penetration and pelvic grinding, Stacked Snakes truly combines the best of both worlds. The receiving partner slips a hand under their body for some self-touch while the penetrating partner provides the extra weight and thrusting from behind. Another plus: both partners get to lie down, making this position the ultimate lazy pleasure.
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The Splitting of Bamboo
With the Splitting of Bamboo, classic Tantra meets modified missionary, plus blindfolds to make things even hotter. The receiving partner lies on their back with one leg on their partner’s shoulder and the other stretched out (we promise it doesn’t require as much flexibility as you think). The penetrating partner straddles the receiving partner’s leg, providing plenty of skin-on-skin contact to make the blindfolds extra titillating.
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The Private Dancer
The Private Dancer is perfect for that ultra-sexy lap dance you’ve always wanted to give. The penetrating partner gets blindfolded for this one, putting the power all in the hands of the receiving partner they slide down onto their partner’s lap. From there, it’s all about grinding and leaning to find the ultimate sensation.
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X Marks the Spot
Kinky spread-eagle sex makes for a triple-X finish. Get creative with this position: blindfold your partner, then use comfortable restraints to tie their wrists or ankles to the bed. Then you can kiss, lick, and touch your partner to your heart’s content, making penetration optional (but extra fun).
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Rock ‘n’ Roll
The blindfolds that both partners (!) use in this move will remove every last inhibition. The receiving partner is on top this time, with their heels planted on the bed for leverage and the perfect angle. Just make sure you get into position before slipping on the blindfolds.
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Cowgirl or Cowboy
We recommend the Cowgirl/Cowboy for the anal first-timer, since the receiving partner controls the pace and depth of penetration. You’re also face-to-face with your partner, allowing for lots of intimacy as well as easy communication.
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Opening Up
Mixing things up keeps “me time” interesting. For Opening Up, sit on a chair with your ankles wound around the legs, opening up your legs and slipping a hand in between. Bracing your legs against the chair gives you plenty of leverage and support as you experience some new, spine-tingling sensations.
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Doggy-Style
Doggy-style is a classic anal move made even more pleasurable with lots and lots of lube. The key here (and with all anal positions) is staying relaxed and making sure your partner is on the same page with the depth and penetration of the move.
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Face to Face
This steamy move offers extra intimacy during the act and can be adapted for anal sex. You and your partner can experiment with plenty of touching and kissing as you set the rhythm together.
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Missionary With a Twist
Craving yet another way to kick missionary up a notch? Make it anal. Make sure the receving partner’s hips are nice and open for this Missionary With a Twist, because their knees will be folded up by their armpits — but we promise the depth and sensation will be totally worth it.
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On the Stomach
Another position made for anal newbies, On the Stomach is a great option for deep, gentle penetration. The big plus? The receiving partner gets to relax on their stomach, with some support from a pillow or blanket under their head. The chill position helps both partners get comfortable, which is a surefire way to make anal more comfortable and pleasurable.
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Spooning With a Twist
Spooning is a pretty traditional move, but it also makes for a great backdoor position. Once again, the comfort and intimacy of the position can help both partners get relaxed while feeling close and connected. Bonus: both partners have their hands free to feel each other up.
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The Circus Freak
OK, the receiving partner will need need some flexibility to master this position, but we promise the effort is worth it. For this position, both partners stand facing each other while. the receiving partner stretches one leg straight above the penetrating partner’s shoulder. It’s a challenging position, butthe intimacy and depth of penetration will have you coming back for more.
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Froggie-Style
While Doggy-Style might get old, Froggie-Syle will always keep things spicy in bed. While the penetrating partner kneels behind, the receiving partner crouches in front of them like a frog about to jump. It might feel a little strange at first, but you’ll love how easy it is to adjust the depth by leaning forward or back, and how quickly you can switch to other positions and keep the fun going.
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Lap Dance
Look, there’s a reason so many of us have lap dance fantasies. This position is a sexy and fairly simple way to get both partners turned on fast while giving the receiving partner lots of control, which always makes things extra steamy.
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The Yogi
Otherwise known as upside-down doggy-style, you might want to practice this one a few times. (Wink!) You’ll want a firm surface for this one (aka the floor) to give the receiving partner plenty of support to push off of. They’ll mimic the wheelbarrow yoga position by pushing off the ground with arms and feet and arching their back, providing a perfect angle (and a super hot position) for the penetrating partner to enter.
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Inverted Missionary
Further proof that missionary can is even more sexy and interesting with a reverse cowgirl on top. The receiving partner can lean forward and back to control the penetration and create some delicious drag.
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The Cowpoke
The Cowpoke those hot-and-heavy bedroom moments when you’re in the mood to ride. It might take a little practice to master this position, which requires the penetrating partner to lie on their back with their legs pulled in to their chest. The receiving partner squats on top of him and rests on the back of his legs. Start slow, be patient, and enjoy just how deep this position can really get.
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The BBQ Quickie
Looking for a summer-friendly sex moves or two? Sneak off to a private place and pull up your skirt for this simple move, where the receiving partner leans over a table or bed and the penetrating partner enters from behind. You don’t even have to take off your swimsuit top.
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The Lounging Lioness
If you can steal a private moment on the deck chair, the Lounging Lioness is a super-hot position to try. The receiving partner lies on top with their legs closed, providing added pressure as well as a tighter sensation for the penetrating partner. Poolside pleasure for two, coming right up.
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The Pouncing Panther
OK, this is really just Doggy-style, but location is everything. To really spice it up for the summer, the receiving partner can put a pillow under their stomach with an icepack wrapped in a towel to keep them cool and experiment with some light temperature play.
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The Teddy Bear
This romantic and intimate position will really make you sweat on a hot summer afternoon. The penetrating partner kneels down (think marriage proposal position) while the receiving partner straddles them to bounce and grind away. You’ll get plenty of kissing and eye-gazing to make it super pleasurable.
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Closed for Business
Getting oral with your legs closed turns arousal up to 11. This position puts all the pressure right where you want it, so if an intense orgasm is what you’re after, you’ll want to give it a try.
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In High Heels
Bring your fantasy to life in this hotter-than-hot standing move. If the receiving partner is the one wearing the heels, they’ll be at the exact right height for deep penetration when they lean over a bed or table.
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The Drop Box
The Drop Box is consideredd one of the best positions for the female orgasm (and your partner will probably enjoy it too). The receiving partner has the option of either wrapping their legs around the penetrating partner, resting their legs on their shoulders, or having them hold their legs in the air — they’re all hot, trust us.
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The G-Whiz
Either variation of the G-Whiz allows for maximum stimulation. The penetrating partner can either lift their partner themselves (giving them great access to a very sensitive area), or the receiving partner can lie on a few pillows to achieve the same effect. Either way, you’ll be coming back to this hot and accessible position again.
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The Tilt-a-Whirl
With the right rhythm and balance, the Tilt-a-Whirl will have you seeing stars in the best way possible. This G-spot-friendly position starts with the penetrating partner sitting with their feet on the floor and the receiving partner sitting on their lap, face-to-face. Hold each others’ arms as you lean back and start grinding. It’s a trust exercise, a core workout, and a sexy position all in one.
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Beach-Safe Doggy-Style
Here you go: an easy way to get it on on the beach without getting sand in those crevices. Simply lay out your towel, slip the relevant parts out of your swimsuits, and have some nice sweaty fun.
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In the Water
In the Water is a super-sexy sex on-the-beach move, because no one knows what’s going on below the surface. Before you get busy, just make sure you choose a safe body of water (think: no parasites, predators, or strong currents).
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On a Beach Ball
Yep, turns out a beach ball can turn into the bouncy sex prop you never knew you needed. It provides lots of soft support to the receiving partner, who leans their body over the ball while the penetrating partner enters from behind. Bonus: suspending yourself above the ground reduces the risk of sand getting into uncomfortable places.
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Reverse Cowgirl
From the bedroom to the beach, the reverse cowgirl position translates perfectly. It’s another one that protects the receiving partner from getting sand all over, while giving the penetrating partner the hottest view from behind.
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Standing Up
This position is basically beach sex 101: Just pull your swimsuit to the side and get busy. For this on-your-feet move, find a secluded, wind-protected area, lean up against a sturdy support, and enjoy some intimate time in the sun.
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Under a Blanket
Keeping beach sex under wraps can make it even hotter. Doing it under a blanket is best if you try a simple but sexy spooning position and wrap your arms around each other. Just remember to wait until the beach clears out for the day!
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Field Goal
This football-themed position is sure to score you points in bed. The receiving partner lies on their back with their hips on their partner’s lap in “field goal” position, providing the perfect opening for penetration. (Touchdown arms optional.)
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Fumble
This is the one time when fumbling in the end zone is actually a good thing. This position is all hands in the best way — between the legs, sliding down the belly, all over the chest, etc. Pull your partner close and enjoy.
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Wide Receiver
Make like a wide receiver and let him be the one to score the points this round. The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs elevated and spread wide. Their partner has plenty of room for oral, penetrative, or manual sex — or all three, if they’re a real all star.
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Bend Over, Baby
This shallow-penetration position makes a smaller penis feel just right. Bent over at a 90-degree angle, the receiving partner can experiment with tilting their pelvis to find the perfect hot spot.
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Scissors
If your partner has a thicker penis, the Scissors position is the way to go. You’ll lie on your sides, facing each other, with your heads on opposite sides of the bed. The receving partner straddles one of their partner’ and slips one leg up to open up and allow for penetration. The friction and the hot position will keep you both feeling fireworks from start to finish.